Last night I had the opportunity to talk to a friend of mine whose wife had VSG (Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy) a few years ago. Their insurance wouldn't cover it so they self-paid for the surgery. Although I had known about the surgery, I had never really asked them about it because I didn't want to appear rude. Being obese myself, I have to admit to feeling uncomfortable talking about my obesity, but I wanted to take this step forward. I think that just like depression, obesity is one of those topics that people feel ashamed about or uncomfortable discussing. I'm pretty sure the only way to begin tackling that is to begin the conversations. So I asked my friend about his wife's experience.
Cici* struggled with obesity before she ever became an adult. By the time she decided to have a VSG, she weighed about 300 pounds. She had to jump through some hoops to have the surgery, including sessions with a mental health provider. They used their flexible spending accounts when they paid for the surgery, which helped some. At that time, the surgery was about $10,000. Cici was unable to have the VSG laparoscopically, which meant that her initial recovery was more difficult. The first two weeks were very painful and she was fairly immobile. She also spent several weeks feeling tired. The weight came off though, and she gradually became more energetic than she had ever been. Cici is down to about 160, and she is full of energy. Her husband also said that the biggest payoff, in his opinion, is her massively improved self-esteem and confidence. He said that he's a worrier and he was concerned about her having the surgery, but now that he's seen how much it has helped her--he's a believer.
I'm definitely interested in other people's experiences and stories. I know it will potential be years before I can have the surgery done. The stories help me keep the hope alive that I too can live a pain-free life of energy and confidence!
Always Beautiful,
Kelly
*Name changed for privacy
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